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A slower kind of dating app

Get to know someone before you decide to meet.

Answer a few everyday questions. We turn them into cards that show how you really are. Every day you meet up to ten people nearby, and when you both like each other, you talk, call, and decide together.

We'll only email you when Between Hellos opens near you.

How it works

Five steps from hello to a first date

  1. 1

    Answer a few everyday questions

    What you'd do when a plan falls through. How you like to be cared for. No clever bio, no special hobby needed.

  2. 2

    Get your cards

    AI drafts short cards from your private answers. You preview them, hide any, or flag one that misreads you. Your answers stay private.

  3. 3

    Meet up to ten people a day

    Explore gives you a small batch of people nearby who want the same kind of connection. Take your time; it lasts 24 hours.

  4. 4

    Like each other to talk

    A chat opens only when the like is mutual. Their cards give you something real to ask about.

  5. 5

    Call, then decide

    Book a short audio call in the app. When you both privately say you'd like to meet, you'll both know.

Inside the app

Four tabs, each with one job

Messages

Talk first, with something to talk about

  • New matches sit on top with a rose ring.
  • Each match shows the relationship types you both picked. Never their whole list.
  • I'd like to meet stays private until you both say yes.
  • Photos arrive as a request. Nothing shows until you tap Allow.
Same Time Tomorrow

Hear their voice before the first date

  • Propose a time from the chat. It's booked only when they accept.
  • A reminder and a Join button right on time. No phone numbers swapped.
  • Liked it? Ask for the same time tomorrow, in both your time zones.
Try Mine

Small invitations, in colour

  • Short posts inviting you to try something the author loves.
  • Tried it? Send a reaction. It's a request, and a chat opens when they accept.
  • A few requests a day, so every one means something.
Explore

Ten people, not ten thousand

  • Up to ten nearby people every 24 hours, picked using your answers.
  • Each person is one page: photos and their cards together.
  • You'll never see the same profile twice.

Your cards

Six topics. Answer at your own pace.

Short rounds of questions about the moments that matter. After enough answers, a new card is drafted for you to keep or skip. Up to four cards go on your profile.

First Dates
Emotional Support
Everyday Life
Long Drives
Travel Together
Intimacy

Why it's different

Built for a real conversation, not a scroll

Swipe appsBetween Hellos
How many peopleEndless stackUp to 10 a day
Your profileWrite a clever bioCards from your answers
What they wantGuess, or read it allOnly the intent you share
Ready to meet?Someone has to ask firstA private, mutual yes
Before the dateSwap numbersAn in-app audio call

Open to more than one thing? Pick any you like.

CasualSeriousMarriageFriendshipNon-monogamy

You only meet people who share at least one, and you only ever see the ones you share.

Safety and privacy

Private by default

Adults only

Everyone is 18 or older, checked on our server. Your birthday stays private; only your age shows.

No exact location

People see a rough range like "within 5 km". Your location is never shared.

Photo verified

An optional selfie check earns a badge. The selfie is never shown on your profile.

Your answers stay yours

Only the cards you publish are visible. The answers behind them are never shown.

Photos need a yes

A photo in chat stays hidden until you choose Allow.

Report and block

On every profile, post, message and call. Reports are reviewed within a day.

Be first in your city

We're opening one city at a time, so there are enough people nearby from day one.

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We'll only email you when Between Hellos opens near you.